Being told you’re not lovable or worthy of love, and you have to change to be accepted. Everyone has that story they’re telling themselves that doesn’t match the story they want to live and share with the world. We all have that limiting narrative in our brain. Anyone who has some story that isn’t supporting their pure potentiality. Yes, but I do have some straight clients. Sometimes people need to know what’s on the other side a little bit. There are resources for them to be more confident in an authentic way. What I’ve been learning about my journey is there are plenty of resources out there for anyone who wants to stop living.
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I was proud of how full circle I’d come, and I wanted to use my journey to help other people. I wanted something I could support myself with. I’m a songwriter and actor and I wanted to do something more with my life.
Glad to be able to help! When did you become a life coach?Īlmost two years ago. I found your character joyous and a real highlight because of the representation. And for some people, seeing an effeminate, happy kid on screen at a time when there was not much LGBTQ representation was important. I feel like I’m making up for years of not being able to connect with people about it. Maybe there are other things I’d prefer to spend my time talking about, but I don’t mind it at all. In the past, it was always a subject I wanted to escape. Are you more at peace with your School of Rock experience now? Occasionally, I’d be able to trick them into dating me for a little bit. At a time in high school, I had a new girlfriend every week.
What do you need?” I said, “I’m gay.” She was like, “Oh, OK.” Had you tried dating girls? I said, “I have to tell you something.” She felt I had murdered someone and she was prepared to hide the body! She said, “I’m here for you. I remember running to my best friend’s dorm room and collapsing. I was so devastated, I didn’t know what to do about it. Definitely gay! I fell in love my senior year and he kind of broke my heart fairly quickly. I was so brainwashed by the experience that I convinced myself I wasn’t gay, which is definitely not true. I didn’t realize I was gay until I fell in love in college. Giphy And then, when you realized you were gay, things got really complicated, right? I’d never been given the opportunity to blend in. Every move I made had no authenticity, but it was just me trying to survive and trying to make the best move for myself so people would accept me for who I am. By the time I realized I potentially was gay, I was already homophobic-because of the stigma associated with it and not wanting to be pigeonholed. I always felt, What do I have to do to earn that love? You have said that, as a result of the bullying, you ran away from who you were. There are people that aren’t dealt the same cards. I had my dark moments, but I had a loving support. There’s a terrible issue with suicide in this community. A lot of people who went through what I went through wouldn’t have necessarily come out at the other end. They knew it was gonna be difficult for me. Yeah, they’ve always been super supportive and kind. At the time, did you speak with your parents about what you were going through? But all people need to know is I went to bed every night wishing the universe or god would make me anything other than what I was. We tend to block out things we don’t want to remember. In middle school, that wasn’t a cool thing to be in 2003. My character had characteristics associated with the LGBTQ community. I was labeled something and I didn’t understand what it meant. What was the School of Rock aftermath for you? I spoke with him for more insight into his extraordinary story. He is now a life coach, in addition to being a singer-songwriter and actor. Years later, he felt more comfortable about his identity and came out to loved ones. Jenny Anderson/Getty Images Brian Falduto attends opening night of School of Rock on Broadway, 2015.
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